UNIMAGINABLE SWINGING: A Spontaneous First Time Swingers Story During A Trip With Friends

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I and my husband have been thinking about this but never gone all the way. Is there anything we should be specially aware of? Even before dinner, I received several more requests from men, women, and couples to play. Unfortunately, I didn’t have enough time, energy, or flesh to make it all happen.

We felt pretty awkward, but we soon realized that this is just natural human behavior. People gravitate toward those they already know. And when you throw in the strong likelihood that you're going to be exchanging fluids with them later on in the evening, then of course, you're going to be a bit more discriminating about who you're hanging out with.I was so in my element that all the insecurities I brought on board were gone by this point. Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking that swinging requires looking a certain way: the name of the game is confidence, and I was seeing that being myself is all I need. Wednesday I slept with a married woman on a cruise, even though her entire family was sleeping a few cabins away.” — Bradley, 50 How she got into it:“I grew up with this idea that there’s not just one person for anyone and that we can enjoy being with multiple people, as well as the idea that you can have sex without having emotion tied to it. My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club.” It’s like building a house – you need a strong foundation to begin with’ says John, on his second annual getaway to Hedo, ‘I didn’t think it was possible to love my wife any more, but here I am’. Whether they’ve wound up here for companionship, or to watch their partner ‘blossom into a more confident and secure human being’, one thing is for certain; the swinging lifestyle has brought them closer together as wives, husbands, and friends.

Sex at sea among the crew is even naughtier, with competitions staged for the most conquests and even a points system broken down by department. Since then, they've swung with six other men, but some encounters were ill-fated. "A couple of the guys I wasn't attracted to," Elizabeth admits. "But because we'd rented a hotel room—and Chris seemed excited about it—I felt I should just go through with it, though I'll never do that again." Once, Chris violated the terms of their agreement when, during an encounter with another couple, she caught him fondling the man's wife. "I shot him a murderous look, and he stopped," she says. "Afterward I said, 'You crossed the line. I told you what I could handle and what I could not.' He apologized, and it hasn't happened since. But if he does it again, swinging is over."How did I get here? When I was 25 I was cheated on. I’d always been a very jealous person, particularly in relationships. I’d go snooping through my partner’s cupboards and scroll through their phone looking for things that I didn’t want to find, but found anyway. I hated being this type of person and when my relationship broke down, I swore to myself that I’d never let sex be the thing that ended a relationship. It seemed that the universe agreed, and around time I decided to keep sex and emotions separate, I was introduced to the deliciously freeing world of swinging. By applying their Sexy Lifestyle strategies to their own couple, Carol and David learned how to build and strengthen their own marriage. This dynamic duo serves as each other’s best friends and biggest fans and have an amazing sex-life together. From previously failed marriages to a solid fulfilled relationship, they figured out a formula that works for them. And now, they coach other couples on the benefits of living The Sexy Lifestyle.